How do you know when you have met your soul twin?

  • There is a powerful and instantaneous feeling that you have know the other before. 
  • Chances are you met through unusual circumstances that were totally unplanned and unexpected.
  • You feel an immediate and deep connection to one another. You both recognize that the two of you and your meeting and relationship are connected by Source.
  • There is an electrifying feeling between the two of you that words cannot describe.
  • The relationship is immediate, as though no time has been lost since you were last together.
  • It feels as though you never really lived before the reunion occurred. You experience a sense of completeness that is without comparison. 
  • You feel a deep sense of sacredness and unity with Source that you 've never known before.
  • The relationship brings on feelings that you never thought possible.
  • The two of you are inseparable.
  • When you look into each other's eyes, time and space have no meaning.
  • There are no barriers between the two of you. The relationship is a totally open one.
  • Your conversations seem to go on forever.
  • The two of you have a strong urge to serve humanity in a deep and meaningful way.
  • You each give to the other and never think of receiving in return.
  • There is a special sacredness to your relationship that transcends anything you have ever experienced.
  • You may still have karma with your twin from previous lives but the two of you resolve it all with total forgiveness and unconditional love.
  • Neither one of you are dependent on the other for your sense of self.
  • There is a strong sense of unlimited eternity to your feelings.
  • Your feelings for each other are very spiritual.
  • There are no restrictions within the relationship. All is freedom without need for ownership or control.
  • The two of you know with any doubt that you have been brought together for a reason.
  • You do not compete with one another nor do you pretend to be other than you are.
  • Even though there is much sameness about the two of you, there is no doubt that you feel a sense of completion through the other.
  • Trust patience and acceptance of each other's weaknesses happen automatically, with thought or judgement.
  • There is a great sense of purpose and meaning to your relationship.
  • Your sexuality with one another  celebrates the unconditional love you have to one another and is unencumbered and free, an almost sacred act between the two of you.
  • The two of you become more and more one, without losing your individual identities. You even experience growth as your own  person while this closeness increases. 
  • When you look into the eyes of the other, you see yourself.
  • The degree of intimacy, both physical and spiritual, and the friendship you develop is without parallel. 


The concept of soul twins is something Dave and I believed very strongly about for nearly all our years together. We knew we had something special between us but were not able to put a name to it for our first 2 years.  Dave and I shared every one of the items on the list above...every one.  And that is not the rambling wish of a lonely woman whose husband has just died. It is what we believed to be true. It does give me comfort at his passing because I am convinced that I will be rejoined with him in one Light Being some time in eternity. This physical lifetime with him was just one of many that came before and it won't be the last.