“You must live in the present, launch yourself on every wave, find your eternity in each moment. Fools stand on their island of opportunities and look toward another land. There is no other land; there is no other life but this.”
This whole grief thing just ebbs and flows....sometimes like a little feeder creek and sometimes like a raging river. You can dam up the creeks with a couple of well placed stones but it can take a feat of engineering to stop the river. Sometimes it is just better to go with the flow, no matter which one you are being swept away by. If you can keep from drowning, it is all good.
